Saturday, August 21, 2010

Since the wreck...

Paperwork, phone calls, paperwork, and more phone calls. I am sick of dealing with 3 different insurances.

I had to return the rental car yesterday and we still don't have a car settlement
or another car.

The nice thing is we are not planning to get a car payment this time since we are trying to live on less, starting these new businesses. And Luke is no longer working as an SLP unless we need too. Kind of scary. Really scary actually.

And we are in our new townhome!!! We have so much space and my kitchen/pantry is to die for. I just wish that everything was within biking and walking distance so I could go without a car more easily. The only thing I could ride my bike to, pretty much is a gas station, Del Taco, Iceberg, and Thanksgiving Point.

Now you know where we are, the first exit after the point of the mountain. Across from Cabellas and Traverse Mountain and just a little North of Thanksgiving Point. Only 10 minutes from my in-laws in Draper which is what we needed.

2 1/2 months of searching has paid off to find a nice place. Glad Luke didn't let me settle, but man is he picky!
Pictures will come sometime. But we would love to have you see it for yourselves! Come!

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

My 2 recent funnies...

1. Gracie took off her diaper on the dance floor at the reception we went to last night. That was our cue to leave!!

2. Tried to open the glass door at the car shop today about 6 times while pushing Gracie in the stroller. Each time I pulled, the wind blew my skirt up in the front--all the way up. So the guy at the counter and I, saw my nice white bloomers each time. I would let go, grab my skirt and the door would slam back shut. Well the last time I tried, I realized that the wind had blown the back of my skirt up as well and I didn't know how long it had been clinging to the hem of my shirt.
Ahh... I wonder how many cars on State Street and 123rd S. saw my whitey tighties too???

I know for sure the guy at Hillside Tire got a full view for a while, because as I thanked him for finally helping me open the door, he didn't have anything to say back. :)

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Glad to be alive!

We were sitting at a DEAD STOP on I-15...
on our way to check out a home for rent in American Fork, 1 mile to our exit and...
we got rear-ended by a guy going 60-65 MPH who NEVER put on his breaks.
He pushed us into the car in front of us...
and then we went off into the ravine on the side.
Our seats BENT/BROKE on initial impact (not sure if this is a safety feature or not but I think it saved us from more injuries)... Luke's seat did not crush Gracie's legs behind him, miracle... (and now I know firsthand, the purpose of the latch system in the seats of your car to hook the car seat to, even though they are a pain, they are worth it because it kept Gracie's seat from popping up like this other one did.)
The AIR BAGS deployed on second impact...
and kept us in our seats with help from the seat belts! (I think the airbags broke the windshield.) I will never forget the SMELL of the airbag powder and the powdery SMOKE in the air. It was so scary!
I thought the car was on fire and it was so out of the blue, neither of us saw it coming, that it took me a few seconds as we were going off the side of the road to understand that we got hit. Luke and I were just talking and waiting in the traffic, Gracie was watching a movie on the DVD player, and then... BOOOM! (I will never forget that horrifying sound.)

My PREGNANT BELLY was so TIGHT and my chest seemed like a thousand pounds were sitting on top of it making it impossible to breathe. Luke was YELLING at me, "ARE YOU OKAY? ARE YOU OKAY?" And I couldn't answer. And then I turned to look at my Gracie girl who had the most SCARED facial expression in the world. And she was screaming and crying!!
I didn't care if I was hurt. I had to pry my bent door open to get out of the car to go get my screaming and crying little girl. She was just shaking and wouldn't calm down.

And to add to her fear, somehow our CAR HORN got triggered in the crash so it was going non-stop till someone helped us disconnect it. There was pieces of cars all over the road.

It turns out the SAAB driver hit us and we hit someone else, then he sideswiped a semi and hit another car into the cement barrier and then himself into the barrier. 4 cars and a semi that all got hit because the SAAB wasn't paying attention, or texting, or on the phone, who knows...

The ambulances and police showed up in a little while and they closed down the freeway and re-routed everyone because traffic was so backed up.

After getting a ride in the ambulance (sweet Gracie didn't want to leave my arms while they inspected me and my 26 WEEK OLD BABY, let alone sit in the car seat to go to the hospital), they checked us all out in the ER, x-rayed Luke's shin and my knee, which were in a lot of pain and determined they were okay.
Gracie went home with Grammy and Papa (so thankful to have them close) and then I sat up on the LABOR AND DELIVERY FLOOR for 4 HOURS while they monitored my baby's heartbeat. They discharged me at 3:00 am and Luke was right there to take me home. Like we even wanted to get in back in the car!

So far this is my longest lasting injury... seatbelt bruise! Glad that is there...
(and to think I previously hated seatbelts! I am an advocate now.)
My knee has hurt for a while, but I am going upstairs normally now! It still kills to touch it.
Gracie bit her tongue in 3 places! (Her mouth was bloody when I got her out of the car, but we are glad it was just from biting her tongue).
Her two small fingers were bruised and a small cut. I am guessing she must have had her hand on the belt or buckles of her car seat. They are partly healed here.
She bruised the underside of her chin too. And now every loud noise has been scaring her and the car horns too. The loud thunder storms and lightning here have not been helping. She has been crying from the thunder and all I can think of is it reminds her of the accident.
Luke's legs took the brunt of the damage. His shin is still hurting him. I am so glad he was with us when this happened. He is our protector, literally! I am so glad none of us got severe injuries.
We are all very sore, but feel very blessed. I am so grateful for our big nice car, that is now TOTALED (bye my favorite 4-runner, who was so good to us and saved our lives).
I am so grateful for airbags and seat belts. I think and hope everything is going to be covered well by the Saab driver's insurance, including my snapped-in-half cell phone, popped out bottom piece lap-top, medical bills, and car coverage. (And we have to get a new car seat now because they said they lose their safety ability after being in wrecks of speeds over 30 mph.)
And don't forget my recent ultra-sound to check for damage to the placenta and decreased fluid. CUTE PICTURE of our safe, and littlest baby girl coming NEXT.

We are so thankful to be able to walk-away from this!! Baby, Gracie, and all.

NOTE to you: PLEASE WEAR YOUR SEATBELT and BUCKLE and HOOK CHILD CAR SEATS correctly. Gracie has always said, "Buckle Mommy!" as I got in the driver's seat way before this accident. Please think of her reminding you to "buckle", you and your child in.

(If you are one who doesn't buckle a child in even for just a quick ride down the street, don't do it anymore! You woud be so sorry if they got hurt. And they would. Trust me, we weren't doing anything wrong or unsafe to get hit Monday night. It just happens! No nursing while driving either, I mean it and I have done it!!)